Description
Holding the Man by Timothy Conigrave is an acclaimed memoir about love, loss, and life during the HIV/AIDS epidemic in Australia.
Set in 1970s Melbourne, the book begins when Timothy, a student at an all-boys Catholic school, falls in love with John Caleo, the captain of the football team. Their relationship spans more than fifteen years as they navigate family expectations, changing social attitudes, and the challenges of adulthood. When both men are diagnosed with HIV, their lives are profoundly affected by the AIDS crisis of the 1980s and 1990s.
Written with honesty, humour, and emotional depth, Holding the Man explores themes of identity, relationships, grief, and resilience. Widely regarded as an important work of Australian literature, it offers a deeply personal account of love and loss during a defining period in recent history.
This version is factual, balanced, and focuses on the book’s literary and historical significance rather than leading with its LGBTQ+ themes.





























